This concept is not new - it is quite Buddhist in nature and origin. We all have a "well" or collection of the things that have happened in our lives (and for reincarnation - previous lives lived) that determine our expectations in the Now. This holds true for our horses (and dogs, etc.) just as it does for us. If our well is full of positive, uplifting experiences, we will tend to expect positive things from those around us and from situations. Should we have a well filled with negative experiences; disappointment, cruelty, pain, conflict... we will expect the same from new situations, at least until they prove themselves to be different. Working with horses, we are adding "drops" to their wells of experience - if they have had predominantly negative experiences with humans, of course they will expect more of the same and prepare, each in his own unique way, to be "assaulted" again. If mostly positive drops fill a horse's "well", he will remain open, friendly, trusting in new situations. As the human partner, it is our duty to replace the negative drops with postitivity with daily edifying and loving care. Just like pouring cream into coffee - eventually the cup will be filled with cream when the coffee has become diluted and finally replaced.
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Well of Experiences
This concept is not new - it is quite Buddhist in nature and origin. We all have a "well" or collection of the things that have happened in our lives (and for reincarnation - previous lives lived) that determine our expectations in the Now. This holds true for our horses (and dogs, etc.) just as it does for us. If our well is full of positive, uplifting experiences, we will tend to expect positive things from those around us and from situations. Should we have a well filled with negative experiences; disappointment, cruelty, pain, conflict... we will expect the same from new situations, at least until they prove themselves to be different. Working with horses, we are adding "drops" to their wells of experience - if they have had predominantly negative experiences with humans, of course they will expect more of the same and prepare, each in his own unique way, to be "assaulted" again. If mostly positive drops fill a horse's "well", he will remain open, friendly, trusting in new situations. As the human partner, it is our duty to replace the negative drops with postitivity with daily edifying and loving care. Just like pouring cream into coffee - eventually the cup will be filled with cream when the coffee has become diluted and finally replaced.
Horses Heal Us
If you can get you out of the way when you come to your horse, he will show you how to shift your position within the field to a place that supports and nurtures your soul. It's all about how you feel and you empower those feelings and they create your reality and your horse is ready to show you how to feel magnificent.
Compassion not Compulsion
In all of our relationships, the light of integrity is held by Compassion. If we consider something other than our own motives and agendas, we can open to living a real life outside of the world of illusion. With animals, we will establish communication instead of domination. With loved ones, we will share our very souls. With humanity, we will become beacons of reason and unconditional love. We will shift ourselves and those who resonate with Nature to a higher kind of love and life where the demoralizing of others is simply not accepted.